Not having much luck with your BBW personals ad that you've recently created? Well your ad just may be costing you dates!
It's hard enough to be single in this world and to try to find a date but to realize that you may be actually costing yourself dates is just a kick in the gut, now isn't it? Don't worry, I'm here to help you get a day tonight with your personal ad.
A few key ways to get a date with that wonderful someone you've been hoping for:
1) Ladies, please don't forget that you are beautiful. Being big doesn't mean that you don't deserve to be loved and that no one is going to be looking to love someone like you. Do you know how many men love, love, love big beautiful women? Seriously, just do a search and you can see all of the websites dedicated to BBW's. Men love BBW's! So you might as well start accepting that fact TODAY!
2) Be yourself. When you are brainstorming ideas to put in your BBW personals ad, please always make sure they are truthful. This will benefit you in the long run.....lies, never, ever, ever work. Be honest, because you're future husband wants to know the REAL you, not a made up you.
3) Be specific. While being yourself try to be specific about certain things that make you different! For instance, let's say you love to watch Happy Gilmore every new years day or that you only buy Captain Crunch with Crunch Berries BUT you pick out the crunch berries because These are the types of things that make you unique and the types of things that seriously may make a guy think "Oh my God she's perfect because I do x, y and z!"
4) Be positive. Always be positive throughout and don't ever, ever, ever talk negative about yourself or make yourself seem desperate or that you don't deserve the best. This is very important.
5) Use humor. If you think you're funny or witty, etc. please by all means use it in your profile! Funny and witty personalities attract folks wayyyy better then doom and gloomy folks! Don't worry if you're not ready to do your own stand up comedy routine though...if you don't feel you're very funny don't try to use humor. (If you're not sure if you're funny; ask your friends.)
6) Catchy headline. Since your headline is usually the first thing folks will see when searching BBW personals it really is one of THE most important pieces of your ad. Try to come up with a few different catchy headlines to draw folks in and make them want to learn more about you (you can ask for the help of your friends again if you'd feel more comfortable.)
7) Use a great photo (of yourself!) Yes, please use a picture of yourself and not of your pet fish or dog, etc. Your potential date wants to see you not your pet. Try to smile and be yourself. A head shot is fine to use in your BBW personals ad.
8) Flirt. Yes ladies, it is ok for you to approach a guy (or lady if you're a lesbian) online first if you are interested. Many dating sites have free features that allow you to "flirt" with folks and this just basically gives them kind of a nudge to let them know that you are interested. Try it, it's easy.
Now if you follow all of the advice above you will definitely have a killer BBW personals ad and it will no longer be keeping you from getting dates but it will be causing potentials suitors to fill up your inbox!
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